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GET MOTIVATED!!!

Learning how to get motivated is something that would save many a lot of wasted time and would definitely help boost their feeling of well being. There is no doubt the sense of accomplishment helps boost your spirits but often a lack of motivation keeps us from experiencing this euphoric feeling. Normally what motivates you is the anticipation of the results you will experience from the efforts you put forth. The biggest obstacle however seems more times than not to be just getting started. Therefore in order to be motivated to take the first step towards many undertakings we must develop or learn new habits.

Here are 5 simple techniques you can use to overcome that lack of motivation that limits your productivity and often robs you of the sense of accomplishment.

There Is No 'Perfect" Time

There is no better time than the present to begin on that new project you have been putting off for months. Many wait for the 'perfect' time in which to start on something and this is nothing more than an elaborate way of procrastinating.
In fact the most perfect time for you to tackle a new project is when you finally overcome your lack of motivation to simply take the first step. Conditions will never be any more perfect than at this point in time.

Just Do It!

Another factor that inhibits us from taking action is we spend far too much time thinking about what it is we want to do. The problem here is that this 'thought process' can raise several questions as to why the project should be delayed. Whether we have 'created' doubt due to time constraints or even our own abilities we are now on the road to procrastinating.
The best approach here is to simply get involved with this new undertaking immediately and as you see progress being made this motivates you to continue your efforts.

Put Your Thoughts in Motion

Your thoughts are the plans you intend to put into motion to realize a desired outcome. Well what good are these thoughts if you never take action on them? As you develop your plans in your mind allow yourself to be motivated by the anticipation of the outcome and start immediately implementing these plans. Once again the first step is always the hardest but after that it is all 'downhill' from there!

Overwhelm Fears by Taking Action

Another common reason for 'putting off' projects or tasks is due to a fear of failure. As strange as it is many people feel that doing nothing is better than trying and failing. The fact of the matter is that in most cases our fears of failure are not justified except in our own minds. By taking action and becoming more familiar with the task at hand our confidence soars and this motivates you even more.

Do Not Delay - Start Right Away

Get down to business immediately once you have decided to take action. It is all too easy to first check email or perhaps the news before getting deeply involved in your work. Both the news and your email can and will wait for you to check them. It is more important to take advantage of the time and your energy level while you have plenty of both to use.

Learning how to get motivated to undertake many projects is more than half the battle of successfully completing them. In most cases what motivates you to pursue any worthwhile goal is the anticipation of the results you will experience from the efforts you invest. A common obstacle for many however is just getting started. Fortunately it is possible to learn new 'habits' that will enable us to be motivated enough to overcome this 'getting started' barrier. The 5 techniques we spoke of above can be easily learned and adopted into your 'mode of behavior' allowing you to accomplish more and enjoy life to the fullest.

Body Language...It Speaks Volumes!

The secrets of our body language have been around forever yet people constantly fail to recognize the importance of using body language to their advantage. Did you know that people only pay attention to 7% of what we say? Where does the rest of their attention go? You guessed it right: our body language. Here are some simple things to practice so that you can use your body language much more efficiently when interacting with people.
1- Always look at someone directly in their eyes when they are speaking to you. This may seem difficult at first but it’s definitely the #1 body language ingredient to make you successful when interacting with others. Note: Do not ever stare at someone.
2- Always stand up straight. You never want to slouch. Not only does this make you appear shorter but it projects an image of someone who has low self-esteem.
3- Smile. Smiling is your most powerful body language signal. Though it is not recommended to smile constantly (people will be under the impression you are searching for approval), you should still make an effort to appear happy and optimistic.
4- Do not make repeated, nervous like gestures. When speaking to someone it’s important to use body movements but never fast and repetitive ones (picture someone who is nervous while public speaking; this is exactly what you're NOT aiming for).
5- Create your own personal space. Make sure you let others know you have your own personal space and do not let them walk all over you. Note: you never want to invade someone else’s personal space.
6- Dedicate all of your attention to the person you are speaking with. Do not constantly look around as if you are uncomfortable or not interested.
7- Make sure to emphasize all of these tips when you meet someone new. First impressions count for a lot. You want to make the best impression you can.
Most people are unaware of the way they are projecting themselves because in general, people will detect body language signals subconsciously. Make an effort to apply all seven of these tips and people will react differently when you are speaking to them.

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